Are these backhanded compliments or straight up slaps to the mouth?

In the newest issue of Vibe 50 said in an interview about Chelsea -

"Chelsea is confident. I think confidence is the sexiest thing about a person.I'm not sure you'll look at her and actually want to jump over the table and f--k her, but you might. You would leave after talking with her feeling that she is a cool person. 

50 Cent attempted to send her gifts to create some sort of peace after having broken off the relationship with Chelsea but a source close to Ms. Handler says she sent them back with a note saying -

"I CAN BUY MY OWN GIFTS"

Source: NY Daily News