Tamar Braxton recently took to Instagram to get some things off of her chest, saying she had a “public service announcement” to make.

Via a now-deleted post that showed up on her IG stories, the former ‘The Real’ talk show host said “The truth is ladies that these dudes out here really be gay!! It ain’t enough money, beauty, hair, babies in the world to keep them!! They want D**K!! Periodt!! It’s nothing wrong with you, but they will find EVERY reason in the world to make u not good enough!! If he lays with you for 3, 4, 10 days and he don’t touch u, it’s NOT YOU!! HE WANT A MAN!! And that’s on my momma.” Take a look above.