Some black men have stated that they choose to date white women over black women because white women are more submissive. Some feel that white women are more willing to obey and cater to their man. Black women have been accused of having too much attitude, unwilling to listen, and not willing to "hold a man down." A white woman who dates black men said if they have those preconceived notions then she is not the one.
According to Baller Alert, Tiffany Jolene posted, “If your primary reason for dating white women is because you’re under the self-centered delusion that they are more ‘submissive’ and understanding of your inherent refusal to get your s*** together without the help of a romantic partner, I am not the Caucasian for you.”
She also stated, “You’re likely to be intentionally targeting a certain brand of white women because they’re as not privy to your bull*** as black women; having been raised around or by you,” she says. “You highlight your disapproval of black women because of their independence, strength . . . They are much more ‘difficult’ for you to manipulate.”
Some people applauded Jolene for being "real," stating facts, and not living up to stereotypes. Others accused her of being racist.
What are your thoughts?
